Obsession for somebody or something is unhealthy, it's like an addiction, it can take over your life. There are lots of things I like to see or do in my life, but I don't let something take over my life. Everything must be put into context, visiting these boards is part of my life, so is going to work, so are many other things, but I don't let one pastime, hobby or infatuation rule my life.
There's an old adage, Everything in Moderation, sounds right to me.